Conflict Is another opportunity to  Connect - with ourselves and others  To lean in and listen  Hold space Co-operate with the feelings or person instead of pushing away Do your children ever fight?  With their siblings, with you or with other...

Tug of war Do you feel the need to ‘win’ at parenting?  When my children wouldn’t co-operate I often felt helpless, like I was losing at parenting and it suddenly felt very important that I ‘win’, this feeling meant I became determined to make them do what I said...

I want to be treated uniquely NOT fairly!  What about you? Do you want to be treated fairly (ie the same as everyone else) or uniquely (ie given what you need which may be the same or different to others)??  We were discussing in the Mindful Parenting...